So I went to school with this one woman. She became an agent in a very reputable agency. I queried her. Didn't hear from her. Now, was I wrong in expecting to hear from her even if it was to say hey, wassup, how are you, but no thanks? I really expected her to respond. So far, out of all the agents I've queried, she's the only letter that has gone unanswered. Thanks.
Well, the first thing I'd wonder is if you included an SASE. And no snarling about how "of course you did" cause mistakes happen.
The other thing is if you think it's fun rejecting total strangers, think of how much MORE fun it is to reject people who knew you when you had braces, spots, and a cassette tape player full of Duran Duran.
She may be taking the easy way out by not responding. Miss Snark has embraced that path on more than one occasion to her everlasting shame.
You might query one more time, make sure you throw in an SASE, and then, if no answer, there's your answer.