I got a good laugh this morning when I slithered over to Kristin's blog and saw someone biting her ass for being mean.
If you want mean, if you REALLY want your hopes and dreams crushed to powder, there's only one blog for you: this one.
Kristin, in case you need the clue bludgeon applied more than once, is really quite NICE.
I had to look the word "nice" up in the OED when I first heard it ('that wasn't very nice of you to crush my dreams Miss Snark') and lo and behold when I fished my 10x magnifier out of my reticule, by dog there was a picture of the divine Miss N right there.
Which is not to say her picture doesn't also appear when you look up Selachimorpha, sub section "deal" cause she's damn good at her job. You'd be a nitwit not to query Kristin if she reps what you write.